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 IV Holiday Editon 'Olelo Newsletter
Kekemapa 1st 2005

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Reunion 2004 Las Vegas

Reunion 2007
Hele mai ka me 'ai  
Olakino Maika'i
Those Were The Days,Then
Those Were The Days, Now
In Remembrance  
Whatever Happened To     
Ke Ala Koho Kaua    
Legends I    II
The Glade Show Club
Paper Doll Revue
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Aunty Anita's Bay Area Page  

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Kekemapa
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Join Kulia Na Mamo Staff and Management as we celebrate the Christmas holiday. We invite you to join us at our Transitional House in Kalihi for a wonderful evening of food, presents, and exciting activities for the holidays!!!

When: December 21, 2005
Time: Dinner @ 5 p.m. (potluck...bring a dish if you can)
Activities to follow throughout the night
Where: Kulia Na Mamo Transitional House
(Please call 791-2020 for additional information)

~Stop by our drop-in center for services~
*HIV Testing and Counseling available
**Health, Education, Cultural, and Social Services available by appointment/walk-in...

Keep an eye out for December's issue of our "Diva News"
Hope to see you all at the party!!!
                 

Paperdoll Review annual Christmas Special on Sunday Dec18th in Honolulu @ Fusions
Aloha All Just wanted to remind all of you that the paperdoll review will have their annual christmas special 2005 at Fusion Waikiki. Doors open at 5:00pm and show to follow. Fun, Food and Raffles with Special Guest Artist. Come and celebrate a joyful christmas. Tickets now on sale $10.00 Advance or $15.00 at the door. See a Paperdoll Cast member for details. Please let your friends and family know. 21+ and over are welcome. 18 and up please ask for information and tickets.  Much mahalo Tiana

MIDDLE SEXES: REDEFINING HE AND SHE
PREMIERES ON HBO TUESDAY, DECEMBER 6, at 9:30 PM

The latest documentary by award-winning filmmaker Antony Thomas While gender has traditionally been regarded as male or female in Western culture, many scientists and anthropologists believe the reality may be more fluid – gender may be better viewed as a
continuous series of possibilities, not a simple, clear-cut division between the two familiar sexes. Narrated by author Gore Vidal, MIDDLE SEXES: REDEFINING HE AND SHE explores the controversial subject of gender-blurring, as well as the problems that often face those who fall between male and female.

It is estimated that at birth more than one percent of babies may not fit neatly into the standard categories of male or female. Filmed in the United States, Europe, Asia, and South America, MIDDLE SEXES: REDEFINING HE AND SHE features interviews with transgendered individuals, transsexuals and intersexuals, as well as biologists, medical researchers, psychologists and other
experts, offering a broader, more inclusive definition of what constitutes “normal” gender and human sexuality than what has traditionally been accepted in the West. To Watch a Preview and Find More Information, visit www.hbo.com/docs
Written and Directed by Antony Thomas; Produced by Antony Thomas and Carleen Ling-an Hsu; Narrated by Gore Vidal;
Director of Photography: Jonathan Partridge; Editor: Mcdonald Brown; Sound Recordist: Simon Farmer; Composer:
Dimitri Tchamouroff. For Granada: Executive Producer: Liz McLeod. For HBO: Supervising Producer: Nancy Abraham;
Executive Producer: Sheila Nevins.

Future Events

I am the coordinator for the upcoming International Two Spirit Gathering and was wondering if you would be willing to add us as a link on your website.  Our site is http://2spiritgathering2006.bravehost.com  Let me know if you are interested and I will also email you the registration forms and poster. 
Thank you. Natalie

Utopia Hawaii will be having their 4th annual Luau on Febuary 26, 2006 at the D.A.V. Hall and we are looking for dancers to participate in our polynesian revue. We will be showcasing 5 polynesian Islands Hawaii, Samoa, Tahiti, Fiji and Tonga. So if anyone is interested in dancing we will be holding rehearsals next month. For more information you can write me back or e-mail us at utopiahawaii@yahoo.com and also check out our web-site utopiahawaii.com and see what we're all about. Other then that, you all have a great and wonderful day.....MUAH.  A Hui Hou  Maddie


The Miss Fusion Waikiki Pageant 2006
After a long vacation we are finally back with a crown that will shine like no other. Do you think you have what it takes to
become the next Miss Fusion Waikiki?? Well Look no further than right here! We are currently accepting applications for the
Miss Fusion Waikiki Pageant 2006. If interested Please contact me for more information and or an application. The Pageant
will be Held on Sunday Feb 19, 2006 (Presidents weekend) at Fusion Waikiki Night Club. All interested parties must be 18
years or older and must be a Hawaii resident with valid id or proof of residency. Applicants must also be of transgender or
female impersonator status. (Doesn't mean that you have to be an entertainer.) Don't fear it will be a night filled with festivities,
fun and most of all the best in entertainment in Hawaii.  Miss Tirana AnnDersen Lamour, Producer / Promoter

                                                                                                   
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     Hauoli! Birthdays and Celebrations


                  December 11   Brenda T.                                         
                                    
25  Melenie    
                          


                  
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Whatever Happened To                                         In  Remembrance
                            See the latest comments and updates              Post your thoughts in the guestbook
 Sonya Bidaios . from Waianae is in the hospital & she had to amputate her right foot...  She is feeling really down & out..  
She is @ the St. Francis West Hospital . ...Prayer for our sister           

 
 Memorial Services For Christina Marsh

  A Loving Friend,  Respected Co-Worker, Pillar of our Community
     Where:
  Church of the Crossroads  (Right next to Varsity Theater @ 1212 University Ave.)
     When:
  This Thursday Dec 8, 2005
  6:30pm-8:30pm
  Pupus will be served

  Article about Christina

ALOHA TO ALL,
 IF YOU ALL DONT KNOW BY NOW OUR DEAR SISTER/ LOVING FRIEND CHRISTINA MARSH PASSED AWAY. TONIGHT IS HER MEMORIAL ON OAHU BUT I WASNT ABLE TO MAKE IT. TO ME CHRISTINA WAS A TRUE FRIEND, SOMEONE WHO I COULD TALK TO NO MATTER WHAT THE SUBJECT WAS. WE SHARED GREAT MOMENTS TOGETHER, AT MEETINGS AND AT RETREATS, ESPICALLY ON BEAUTIFUL MAUI AT KEANAE. IT SEEMS LIKE IM LOSING ALOT OF FRIENDS BUT I KNOW IN TIME WE WILL MEET AGAIN. CHRISTINA MAY YOU REST IN PEACE AND UNTIL WE MEET AGAIN A HUI HOU LOVE YOU GURL YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN ,,,
CHAZ VONDRAKE

Aloha to all....
It is with sadness that I send out a prayer for miss Christina Marsh...if you have not heard already (and I've  not seen anything come
across non of my e-males)  Christina Marsh 47 passed away November 26th in Iowa. . Recently left Hawaii to be with her mother in Iowa where she could receive more rehabilitation therapy.  She apparently died of pneumonia.
 
There will be a service that friends are putting together for her Thursday December 15 if you need more information you can call the Life
Foundation or hit me back up.

Hope you all have a wonderful and productive day
Harley Davidson

ALoha everyone,
  Today is a very sad day, I have just learned that another sister has pass away and moved on to a better place. Our sister Christina Marsh ( Christy Love) has passed away earlier today. As most of you may know Christina had a  terrible accident earlier this year and was recovering and moved back home with her parents in Iowa. I just thought I let everyone know how hard it must be to loose a love one during this time of year. As we celebrate the holidays with our family, remember to cherish life and to always express to your love ones how much they mean to you, while you are here, because we never know how long we have here before return home to be with our lord father in heaven. I just want you all to know that I love you all and how much you all mean to me. Christina Marsh, I love you and though I will miss you, I know your in a better place, and I will see you when I return home, I Love you very much Christina, until we meet again sis.....MUAH
  Love & Aloha
  Maddalynn Ashton

My Dearest Christine
 My heart is heavy with emotion upon hearing   that you have join Akua & your heavenly Ohana.I will alway's remember the  good times at Queen Surf in Honolulu.......and the first night we dressed you in Drag. That's been OVER  25 years ago sis. My thoughts and prayers are with your family & inner circle of mahuwahines. One day our spirits will meet again.May you Rest in Peace...........
 
I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER YOU "CHRISTY LOVE"...........AUNTY ANITA

We've received the information that Christina has passed away.
Lets gather our prayers and thoughts for Christina and her family.
We know of our present moment and not what can happen next, i'm a living human being that can relate to that, so please, take a moment, even if you didn't know her, but share the love and aloha, spread the word of positive thoughts for her and her family.

Christina may your soul be in peace!
aloha from the heart, always
Cukie Jones
Miss Gay Pride Hawaii 2005-2006


   Greetings


Queen Mother House of Sei
Lindsey aka Isadora Sei
                                      
alii@islandgoddess.org

Aloha
My brothers and sisters, I'm finding out as we get older, the more we appreciate how nice it is to see old friends and knowing that everyone is doing well.

        To Connie and Company of Hula Girl Productions, a big Mahalo for a grand time.   My sisters and I had a nice time in
        Hawaii attending the Center's Auction and Fundraiser, "Night at the Glade".  If there is any thing I can help you with,
        please do not hesitate to give me a call.  Mahalo nui, once again.

Just returned to Las Vegas from Hawaii, it was nice to go back home again.  My love and Aloha and deepest sympathy to Richard on the passing of his 101 year old grandmother, a loving grandma who will always be remembered by me and all the friends that knew her. Aloha Nana, Aloha.

When I was home, I attended the "Night at the Glade".  It was so nice to see some of Hawaii's drag legends.  In 1970 I started work at the Glade. There I met Butch Ellis. After 35 years, we refreshed our memories of the good old times.  I saw Brandy Lee, Charmaine Lee Anderson, Monique Ocampo, Jessica St. Clair, Avon Fran and so many more. A lovely event and so many memories.
I would like to thank all the girls who helped (interviews) with the Glade Project.  A big Aloha to all of you for keeping those memories alive.

On Saturday, Raquel, Richard and I met to set the groundwork for Reunion 2007 Hawaii.  Knowing that a lot of people will have traveled a long way, we scheduled open days for people to spend time and entertain guests & family.  If any group or organization wants to host an event during the Reunion week, please don't hesitate to call Richard or Raquel to work with you in submitting a proposal for the official agenda.  This will be the biggest event yet!  I guaranty you will have a fabulous time. If you haven't started beading that gaff (or duck tape), let's get going.  Don't forget to save the feathers from your Thanksgiving turkey for a boa!  That natural look is in!  

I can't believe it is October already.  The weather has changed here in sin city -nights are in the 50's & days in the 80's and soon Santa Claus will be knocking on your panties asking to 'let him in'.  We will sing Auld Langzyne and welcome in 2006!

Sisters, my heart is beating with excitement.  There is still a little time left to pull that waist in, tits out and a little tuck behind the ears.  As I have said, "It is not how we look, it's friends coming together to see how we look"!!  So lets not be caught with our panties down around our feet -start planning your vacation trip now for June 11th-17th 2007 in Hawaii.
 
A big Mahalo to Shelley for covering the cost of the website for the past year -and buying the updated software. Also, Mahalo to Heather for her donation to support the Website.  This has become an important way that we keep in touch with each other.  Please consider supporting the Website by sending your donations to Shelley (using her mailing address) email a request for her address to:
shelley@islandgoddess.org. A little from a lot goes such a long way.

Well my sweet things, it is 8:00 in Las Vegas, it is dark and I'm going to wash and go to sleep.  With hopes for happy dreams and to all a good night.
Love, Isadora/Lindsey    
 

Aunty Anita
Island Goddess Ambassador of Aloha


anita@islandgoddess.org

Aloha Mahuwahines ,Aikanes & Mahukanes
My Exotic Flowers of the Universe.The Holidays is upon us again ! For many it's the Christmas Rush on the Express Lane. The shopping for that special gifts .......the parties......the lists are numerous and can be stressfull. So slow down my exotic flowers and enjoy the moment . Can not believe 2005 is coming to an end.

It's also time  to remember and our brothers and sisters the have passed on to Our Heavenly Ohana. Some of us have lost family members.  Time to  reflect on our life lessons of the year ..... learn & grow from it, Imua, tee.  Be thankful for life's blessing  and remember to love and embrace the goddess within you .  Walk with aloha in the heart dea........The Aloha starts with us , home and into the community

ho'opomaikai'ia 'oe e na makana kamaha'o o keia kau. Me ke aloha e.
May the Wondrous Gifts of the Season be yours.
Greetings of Aloha!  
Aunty Anita

Shelley Roberts
Island Goddess Website Wrangler

shelley@islandgoddess.org


Take advantage of this Holiday Season to contact friends and family.  Let go of past disagreements and plilkia as the year ends.  Let's embrace the renewing spirit of the year 2006.  Happy Holidays to my family, friends and web visitors.


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Mele Kalikimaka me ka Hou' oli Makahiki Hou!
Aloha to all my little Plumerias out there in the world of Aloha. Another year has passed us by and as it comes to a close it is time to reflect and to look forward to the New Year coming our way. We can look back and see how we lived our lives and how we can do even better in the future. In the true spirit of Aloha our Christmas season lasts all year long as we grow to love and respect each other in many, many ways. Wither we are at home in the Islands or some other place in the world our Aloha for each other knows no boundries. As we go thru our daily life lets us  filled every corner of our environments with the sun shine of our Mana.

A hui hou kakou. Ka pumehana a me ka oiloli kealoha.
Me ka 'oia 'i 'o, Aunty Hooponopono

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From www.phoenixnewtimes.com  
Originally published by Phoenix New Times 2005-12-22
©2005 New Times, Inc. All rights reserved.

The Crying Game
Despits a celebrated history, Native American Transgenders struggle in the modern world.

By Joe Watson
joe.watson@newtimes.com


Friday, December 16, 2005 (SF Chronicle)
Defendant in Gwen Araujo case pleads guilty to voluntary manslaughter
Henry K. Lee, Chronicle Staff Writer
 -- In a dramatic turn, the fourth and final defendant charged with killing Newark transgender teen Gwen Araujo three years ago pleaded guilty today to voluntary manslaughter and will be sentenced to six years in prison.    Jason Cazares, 25, whose two trials in the slaying led to deadlocked juries and mistrials, entered his plea this morning at the Hayward Hall of Justice. He will return to court Jan. 27 for formal sentencing.    In September, a jury convicted Jose Merel and Michael Magidson, both 25, of murdering Araujo in October 2002 by beating and strangling her after learning that Araujo, with whom they'd had sex, was biologically male.
Merel and Magidson face sentences of 15 years to life in prison in the slaying, which occurred during a party at Merel's house. The defendants buried Araujo in a shallow grave in the Sierra foothills.    Jurors spent weeks deliberating during the second trial in Araujo's
slaying before revealing that they were deadlocked 9-3 in favor of a second-degree murder conviction for Cazares. But they rejected allegations that the slaying was a hate crime stemming from Araujo's gender orientation. Some jurors believed the defendants killed Araujo simply to "cover up a situation that had gotten out of control," Juror Max Stern told The Chronicle in September.    The first trial ended after 10 days of deliberation in June 2004 when the jury deadlocked on the charges against all three men.    A fourth defendant, Jaron Nabors, 22, who led police to Araujo's body, pleaded guilty in 2003 to voluntary manslaughter in exchange for testifying against his friends. He is expected to receive an 11-year prison sentence.

 Doe vs. KS Update
Here is a statement from KS spokeswoman Ann Botticelli:
The silence from the 9th Circuit Court continues, which means that one or more of the Appeals Court judges wants to seriously consider our request for a rehearing of the 2-1 panel ruling handed down Aug. 2.

If you are asked about our case, remember this excerpt from the ruling upholding our policy issued by U.S. District Judge Alan Kay:  "This case involves exceptionally unique circumstances involving a private school, which receives no federal funding, with a remedial race-conscious admissions policy to rectify socioeconomic and educational disadvantages of indigenous Native Hawaiians resulting from the influx of western civilization."
Catch Dee Jay Mailer, Kawika Alfiche and myself on Solid P.O.I. radio in December
Speaking of Hawai'i-friendly media:  this Sunday, Dec. 11, Kawika Alfiche (the kumu hula/musician who was instrumental in helping with the Aug. 20 SF march to the Ninth Circuit) will be on Pa'ahana and Joseph's talk show "Solid P.O.I." - "Positions On Issues" - out of Las Vegas, Nevada.  I'm supposed to call in half way through and "talk story" with Kawika on air about the historic event.    That's THIS Sunday, from 5-7 pm Pacific Time.  Log onto www.solidpoi.com, click on link to KLAV am1230, then click "ON AIR" to listen in.  You'll also get the chance to hear some of Kawika's music from his amazing CD "Na Lei" which is making a big splash all over Hawai'i, the continent, and Tahiti.
 
And the following Sunday, Dec. 18, you can hear Kamehameha's wonderful CEO Dee Jay Mailer on Solid P.O.I.  These are great opportunities for folks on the continent to learn about the issues affecting our people, so please tune in and spread the word!
 
If you are in Southern California....
Please save January 21, 2006 for an 'Aha Kuka at the Carson Community Center from 10am-2pm.  I'd like to see the broadest participation possible since members of Hawai'i's Congressional delegation will be here for the event, as well as representatives from OHA and Kamehameha Schools.  These ongoing legal attacks against public and private resources intended for kanaka maoli must continue to be addressed in the spirit of lokahi.  So please come -- this is the next big event for kanaka maoli in California -- don't miss it!  (more info to follow)
 
Mele Kalikimaka
Finally, I'd like to wish you all a wonderful Christmas and New Year's with your 'ohana and friends.  I have so many blessings to count when I reflect on 2005 -- and each and every one of you who I've met this year (whether on-line or in-person) is at the top of that list.  
Me ke aloha pumehana o 'Iesu Christo,
Noelani (Loo) Jai, KS '83
('dat housewife from Huntington Beach)

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Modern-day nádleeh: Gay, bi and transgendered Navajos share their hopes and struggles
 By Cindy Yurth,  Soecial to the Times
 In many ways, Pernell Sam is a traditional Navajo woman. She makes a mean batch of fry bread. She's fluent in her language. She knows every inch of the red mesa behind her family's home in Many Farms, where she used to herd
sheep as a boy.
 
You read that right. In one way, Sam is not so traditional. Or perhaps she is. The 29-year-old transgendered woman, who runs her own cleaning service, considers herself a nádleeh - a man taking on the role of a woman.
 
In the Navajo creation myth, the nádleeh went with the men during a period when the sexes decided to separate. They helped the men to survive by doing the cooking and other tasks traditionally assigned to women. In traditional Navajo society, members of this  "third gender" had an accepted place, helping with the child care, cleaning and cooking. There was also a fourth gender, the dilbaa' - women who took the masculine role.
 
According to Wesley Thomas, a Navajo assistant professor of anthropology, gender studies and international studies at Indiana University-Bloomington, the concept of nádleeh is not well understood among younger Navajos - and by
"younger," he means people under 75.
 
"The nádleeh was, in my research work, an asexual being who was specifically placed and existed only within the Navajo religious sphere," Thomas emailed from his office in Bloomington. "This made the nádleeh a gender being, instead of a sexual being."
 
Nevertheless, the concept of nádleeh is intriguing to modern Navajos living what are now considered alternative sexual lifestyles: gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgendered. The legend of the nádleeh proves, according to gay Navajo activist Sherrick Roanhorse, that "our traditional culture recognizes differences and bases more importance on what an individual can
do for their family and, in a larger sense, their community."
 
If people of ambiguous sexuality were once accepted members of Diné society, that is not so today. Sam can show you the scar on her back where she was stabbed during a party not far from her home. 
 
"I guess the guy thought I was coming on to him or something," she said.
       
 For other Navajo gays, lesbians and transgenders interviewed for this article, the scars are psychological. At best, they were the victims of hurtful words at school. At worst, they tried suicide. And almost everyone interviewed knows of at least one person who succeeded in taking his own life, unable to cope with the isolation of being gay on the rez.
 
"Every time I see an obituary for a young person in the Navajo Times, I wonder," said "Ian," a 39-year-old gay Navajo living in Phoenix. "Was it someone struggling with the same kind of issues I faced as a kid?"
 
Many GLBT Navajos blame Christianization for the gradual change in attitudes toward gays over the years, but Ian said he always felt free to be himself among his Christian family.
 
"My grandmother was a Pentecostal minister," he said, "But my family always accepted me for who I was. I think more than whether your family is Christian or traditional, it's the individuals in the family who set the tone. If someone in your family hates gays, that attitude can spread to the whole family. My grandmother had the real Christian message: Don't hate."
 
When Ian went to high school in Gallup, it was a different story. "I was very feminine. I looked like a girl, actually," he said, "so I got all the words: 'fag,' 'queer,' 'HIV,' 'AIDS.'"
 
Fortunately, Ian had had enough support from his family over the years that he was able to shrug off the bullying. "I felt sorry for the kids who were calling me names, actually," he said. "I thought, 'You don't know me, and you have no idea what you're doing.' I mean, what if you call someone 'HIV'  and they really are HIV-positive? How would that make them feel? How would
you feel?"
 
"Luke," a 27-year-old bisexual man living in Shiprock, was one of the kids "who used to make fun of the fags" in high school.
 
"I was one of the macho jocks who went out for every sport," he said.  
Then he went away to college.
"I had an experience with a fraternity brother, and it was great," he said.
"I never knew I could be attracted to men as well as women."
 
Most of the GLBT Navajos interviewed for this article, though, knew they were different "from Day One," as "Dale," a 19-year-old freshman at Northern Arizona University put it. Like many gay teens growing up on the rez, he found ways to hide his sexual preference.
 
"At first, I was the kind of kid you wouldn't even notice," he said. "I did my best to blend into the wall. Then I did the complete opposite and got into everything - sports, Spanish Club, studentbody government, you name it. When I hung out with my male friends, I'd see a pretty girl walk by and say, 'Wow, she's hot,'" even though I wasn't feeling anything at all."
 
Like most of the gay men interviewed, Dale isn't "out" to his family yet. "I'm afraid they'd cut me off," he said. But he has found a community at NAU.
 
"During my first couple of weeks here, I talked myself into going to a Gay-Straight Alliance meeting," he said. "For the first time in my life, I felt like I had a home."
 
Almost universally, college was an awakening for GLBT Navajos.
 
Tomasina Grey, a 23-year-old union organizer living in Albuquerque, knew she was attracted to women since "about fifth grade," but she tried to "do the dutiful daughter thing."
 
"I even got engaged to a man in high school," she said. "It wasn't until college that I met other lesbians, and straight people who were supportive of me being a lesbian, and felt like it was OK to be who I am."
 
Navajos who moved off the rez to Albuquerque, Phoenix, Santa Fe and other southwestern cities found a solid network not only of GLBT folks, but of GLBT Natives. Nativeout.com, a Phoenix-based online support group and information clearinghouse, offered a chance to chat and to organize. At the University of New Mexico, there was until recently a class offered on "Two-Spirits," a modern term adopted by GLBT Indians based on some North American tribes' belief that homosexuals are blessed with two spirits, male and female.
 
(The term doesn't resonate with some Navajos. "In our culture, if you have two spirits, you'd better find a medicine man, because it means you're possessed," said Mattee Jim, a transgendered woman living in Gallup.)
 
For many young Diné, it wasn't until they went away to college and started studying their own culture that they learned of the nádleeh.
 
"I actually laughed at the stories, and thought someone had made them up within the last couple of years," said Herman Larry, a 21-year-old student living in Tucson. "When I was growing up, there were no folklores of other homosexuals running around the forest or stories of the nádleeh."
 
Most young Diné GLBTs found the stories encouraging. Jim has gone as far as to forego female hormone injections and surgery, in solidarity with the nádleeh of old.
 
"I would love to have breasts and soft skin," she said, "but they didn't have access to those things (hormones and surgery), so I figure I can live without them."
 
Just when many young Navajo homosexuals were learning that they have a traditional place in their culture, the Navajo Nation Council dropped a neutron bomb on the gay community: the Diné Marriage Act of 2005.
 
Passed overwhelmingly this past spring over President Joe Shirley Jr.'s veto, the act allows the Navajo Nation to recognize only marriages between a man and a woman.
 
It was, in the words of one young gay man, "a slap in the face out of the blue."
 
Luke, who has political aspirations himself, was furious.
 
"They say they're for traditional family values, but in the same year they passed a law decriminalizing adultery," he said. "Is adultery between heterosexuals more moral than a gay couple in a committed relationship?"
 
Thomas, the anthropology professor, says legislating marriage at all is blatantly un-Navajo. "The Navajo form of marriage was only acknowledged by the local communities and not the whole Navajo Nation," he wrote. "We all should be ashamed of ourselves in buying into the enforced doctrine of Western acculturation and assimilation."
 
Some GLBT Navajos blamed themselves for not lobbying harder against the act.
 
"We let the urban Indians fight our battles for us," said Jim. "Where were the rez queens?"
 
Whatever the case, the law was passed, and most of the GLBT Navajos interviewed for this piece say they feel less welcome on the rez than ever.
 
"I haven't been home in over a year," admitted Dale, who hails from the Ganado area. "Even the way I dress now, I don't think I could get away with it on the rez."
  
While some GLBT Navajos think things may be getting marginally better for young gays on the reservation, others are pessimistic.
 
 "There's still no one for them to talk to about these things, no support network," said Luke. "Although people still practice the traditional religion, the moral and religious climate on the reservation is mostly dominated by Mormonism and fundamentalist Christianity, neither of which are known for being friendly toward gays."
 
Jim said she's observed effeminate men being accepted during traditional ceremonies, but not elsewhere.
 
"Almost every ceremony you go to, you'll see a couple of men helping make the tortillas or whatever," she said, "and everyone is laughing and talking and getting along fine. But as soon as the ceremony is over, you walk out into the world and the name-calling starts again. And it's some of the same people who were laughing with you at the ceremony."
 
Grey said it will be the Navajo Nation's loss if something isn't done to stem the diaspora of GLBT Diné.
 
"We have a lot to offer," she said. "Most of us are successful professionals, with good jobs. Most of us have gone to college.
 
"In our traditional culture, the nádleeh were thought to have healing powers," she continued. "What if the next great Navajo medicine man is locked up in a closet somewhere? What if we're the ones to heal our culture? What if we're the ones to restore our religion?"
 
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Hawaii: LGBT youth ward abuse suit will go forward
Christopher Curtis, GAY.COM/PlanetOut.com Network
Wednesday 23 November, 2005
A federal judge ruled Monday that a lawsuit accusing the Hawaii Youth Correctional Facility of abusing its LGBT wards would proceed in court.  In September, the American Civil Liberties Union (ACLU) of Hawaii filed the lawsuit claiming that guards and an administrator at the Hawaii Youth Correctional Facility (HYCF) harassed a lesbian ward, a male-to-female transgender ward and a boy who some of the facility's staff believe is gay.

The lawsuit asserts that state officials knew about the alleged abuse and did nothing to stop it. A registered nurse practitioner at the facility told state lawmakers that guards repeatedly insulted the girl, telling her she would go to hell.

The lesbian ward escaped and faces possible criminal charges. The boy and the transgender ward now live at home.
Because the three youths are no longer in custody, state attorneys argued that the lawsuit should not proceed.

But US District Judge Michael Seabright ruled against the state on the basis that the youths may have been hurt during their incarceration, and could likely face future sentences in the facility.  Deputy Attorney General John Molay told the Hawaii Star-Bulletin he was disappointed.  "We do not believe that the rights of these plaintiffs were violated," Molay said. "We have interviewed our (youth corrections officers), and they have denied the allegations."

ACLU attorney Lois Perrin called the ruling an important step.  "The court clearly recognised that the children have the ability to ask HYCF to enter an order to stop the pervasive abuse and harassment of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender kids," she told the Honolulu Star-Bulletin.

Paul Cates, an ACLU spokesman, admitted the national organisation does not know the extent of LGBT harassment in youth correctional centers across the country.

"Unless we get complaints from victims, we don't know about this stuff. I do know in California they have been having a problem. So if it happens in California and Hawaii, it probably happens everywhere," Cates told the PlanetOut Network.

The next hearing in the case is scheduled for December 20, 2005.

Bill may include transgender protections includes gender identity and expression
By Kate Campbell Senior staff writer  campbelldbk@gmail.com.
November 23, 2005
The University Senate task force working to draft a student bill of rights added a phrase to the rough draft of the document Monday specifically protecting transgendered students from discrimination.The inclusion of the phrase “gender identity and expression” in the bill’s draft follows years of students’ efforts to formalize specific protection for transgendered students — those who undergo sex-change operations or identify and live as a person of the opposite gender — even after state and system officials denied writing the line into other university documents.

Students had appealed to the University Senate before to include the phrase in the list of protections offered under the university’s Human Relations Code. Although the senate and university President Dan Mote approved the addition to the code in 2003, the Board of Regents and the state’s attorney general’s office said the phrase was unnecessary because the policy already inherently protected transgendered staff and students. While the administration has since interpreted the code to protect transgendered students, officials did not add the specific phrase to the code.

Adam “Gus” Collins, a senior psychology major and president of the Pride Alliance — a student group dedicated to supporting lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgendered students that recently lobbied for the inclusion of the line — said including the phrase would give transgendered students a specific document to reference should they encounter discrimination.

“It sends a strong message to the campus that students who choose to transgress gender boundaries and gender norms will be protected by the university,” he said. Collins also said he hopes it will spur university departments, such as the Resident Life Department, to revisit their policies on issues that affect transgendered students.

Under Resident Life’s current policy, he said, transgendered students who choose to live on the campus are assigned dorm rooms based on their biological birth sex, but that conflicts with the gender with which they identify.

At the bill task force meeting, Sara Jaye Sanford, a junior English and women’s studies major, member of Pride Alliance and vice president of Feminist Activists of Maryland, asked that “gender identity and expression” replace “sexual identity” in the bill of right’s sixth clause. The bill also lists gender, race, sexual orientation, political affiliation, physical or mental handicap and relationships, among others, as criteria under which students may not be denied rights or protections.

The reason for requesting the change was “sexual identity” was too vague and “sexual orientation” does not specifically address transgendered students, Collins said.

“Sexual orientation refers to which gender people find themselves attracted to,” he said. “Gender identity has much more to do with how you identify ... It has much less to do with who you’re attracted to and much more to do with how your self-concept is constructed.”

Charles Wellford, co-chair of the task force drafting the bill of rights and a professor in the criminology and criminal justice department, said the Human Relations Code is subject to state regulations that would not affect the inclusion of the phrase in the student bill of rights.

“Here we’re creating our own document, and at least for the draft I thought it was fair to include it and others can comment on it,” he said.

Collins said because the administration has already interpreted the code as implicitly protecting transgendered students, he does not expect that explicitly adding the phrase “gender identity and expression” to an official university document would cause conflict.

Wellford said he could not predict whether the phrase would encounter resistance in the senate as the bill progresses toward completion, but noted none of the assembled committee members raised any objections.

The task force has a Feb. 28 deadline to submit a draft to the senate’s executive committee. The bill will go to Mote for approval if the full body senate votes to support the bill.


Malaysian transsexual won’t battle government over marriage
KUALA LUMPUR, Malaysia (AP) — A Malaysian transsexual woman said last week she won’t fight a decision by the government to declare her marriage to a man as illegal because she wants “no trouble” over what is believed to be the first such union in this mostly Muslim country. Jessie Chung, a Christian businesswoman who was born male and underwent sex change surgery in China in 2003, said she was “satisfied and very much in love” after marrying Joshua Beh in a ceremony conducted by independent church pastors in Malaysia’s eastern Sarawak state on Nov. 12. Home Minister Azmi Khalid said their marriage was an invalid same-sex union. Chung’s identification papers state she is still a man, since Malaysian transsexuals cannot legally update their gender status even after changing their sex. Malaysian newspapers said it was the country’s first marriage involving a transsexual.


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             Merry Christmas from Kulia Namamo

HONOLULU 12/23/05
 
ALOHA AND HAPPY HOLIDAYS TO YOU ALL. JUST A QUICK NOTE TO SAY HELLO TO EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU! I CAN'T POST INDIVIDUALY SO I'LL MAKE USE OF THIS BULLETIN.

I JUST WANTED TO THANK EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU FOR SURROUNDING ME WITH YOUR FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE! YOU ALL MEAN SO MUCH TO ME AND I CAN'T EXPRESS HOW I FEEL FOR EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU! YOU ALL ARE VERY SPECIAL AND UNIQUE TO ME AND I AM BLESSED TO HAVE YOU ALL IN MY LIFE! THANK YOU AGAIN!!!

I PRAY EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU HAVE A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS AND A VERY PROSPEROUS NEW YEAR! MAY YOU BE BLESSED WITH YOUR FAMILIES TO SURROUND YOU WITH LOVE AND MAY YOUR BANK ACCOUNTS BE FILLED WITH RICHES BEYOND YOUR IMAGINATION!

IF YOU PARTY HARDY, PLEASE DRINK RESPONSIBLY OR DESIGNATE A DRIVER. I EXPRESS THIS WHOLE HEARTEDLY, I LOST A SPECIAL LOVED ONE TO THIS KIND OF IRRESPONSIBILITY, SO PLEASE, BE SAFE AND THINK OF OTHERS.

I LOVE YOU ALL AND MAY GOD BE WITH YOU IN ALL YOU DO AND WITH YOUR FAMILIES! TAKE CARE, BE SAFE, LOVE ONE ANOTHER AND CALL ME SOMETIME DAMMIT! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAAH....

*MUAH* *MUAH* *MUAH* !!!!!!!  LOVE ALWAYS, TIARE TAVUI


RECEIVED AN EARLY XMAS GIFT, WHICH WAS TO SEE "CIRQUE HAWAII" IN THEIR FIRST NIGHTS PRESENTATION TONIGHT SATURDAY, DEC. 17TH @ THE FORMER IMAX THEATER IN WAIKIKI.  ALL I CAN SAY TO YOU ALL, HANDS DOWN THIS IS A SHOW THAT IT'S A MUST SEE SHOW!  YOU LAUGH, ENJOY AND WILL BE PLEASED BY THIS ONE SHOW, THAT IS A SPECTACULAR FUNFILLED EVENT.  THERE IS SO MUCH VARIETY IN THIS SHOW, THAT YOUR HANDS JUST KEEP CLAPPING FOR SO MUCH ENTERTAINMENT.

YOU'LL BE AMAZED BY THEIR TALENT!  I'M THE FIRST ONE TO REVIEW THIS SHOW AND I GIVE IT, HEADS UP, TWO THUMBS UP, HANDS DOWN THE BEST SHOW TO HIT HAWAII IN A LONG TIME.  EVERY PERFORMANCE IS UNIQUE, EXQUISITE AND IN SOME CASES, CHALLENGING, AND THIS WILL JUST LEAVE YOU "ENTERTAINED", GUARANTEED!!!!

ONCE AGAIN, "CIRQUE HAWAII" IS @ THE FORMER IMAX THEATER AND I PROMISE, YOU WILL WANT TO COME BACK TO SEE IT AGAIN, AND AGAIN AND AGAIN......AND WANTING MORE.

MERRY CHRISTMAS TO ALL,  ALOHA FROM THE HEART,  CUKIE JONES


12/17/05 SAN FRANCISCO
As the new year arrives there may have been so much drama that occured for most. "LET IT GO" bring in the most positive dreams you may have imagined for 2O06 and MAKE IT REAL"

Hauoli makahiki hou
Tatiana

Honolulu, Hawaii
Mele Kalikimaka A Meka Hauoli Maka Hiki Hou...... Aloha Tita's, Well again thanks to u all another great year has gone by and communications within have been outstanding, just one more year and our next Reunion will be here... hope to see all of you there.... miss u much and hope u all have a great Holidays.....
Much Luv  Ms Jerrine


 Name Angela Carrera Location New york City Comments Aloha from the Big Apple New York City, New york. Wishing all of you the very Mary-est Christmas and best wishes for the New Year. Mahalo plenty for keeping this website at it's very best, giving us ''TITA'S'' a way to keep up with all the latest news and to stay in contact with eachother.Take care, God bless and remember, no matter where you may be in the world, always carry the SPIRIT OF ALOHA WITH YOU!
All my love, Angela


My Dear Hawaiian Friends,
Have a Safe and Happy Christmas
Peter.
PS.    I haven't, nor will I, ever forget any of you, and I Miss you All............
 LIVE with Compassion, WORK with Comapassion, DIE with Comapassion, MEDITATE with Compassion, ENJOY with Compassion,
When Problems come, EXPERIENCE them with COMPASSION.
(Lama Zopa Rinpoche)

.Miss  Venus 2005 Honolulu  11-27-05
I just wanted to congratulate Coco Chandalier on a well deserved victory. You are truly an inspiration to us all. May your reign be sweet and your talents shine on. You served it well. Congratulations also to Victora K for a wonderful job and a well deserved first runner up.

Marina, Katrina, Aleeciya...You served it congrats.
Aleeciya, you were awesome. From day one your attitude has been nothing but positive. Endless nights of being here hehe. Its cool cause I got to know more of you. Thank you for being an awesome person. Though the crown does not rest upon your head, you are a winner in my eyes. Love you sis!!!

May you all have a great week and live life with love!!!
Love you all,
Miss Tryniti La Croix
La Femme Magnifique Hawaii Plus 2005-2006



CONGRATULATIONS TO COCOA CHANDELEIR ON CAPTURING THE TITLE OF MISS VENUS HAWAII 2006 !!....ALSO CONGRATULATIONS TO MICKI DURAN (1ST RUNNER-UP) AND MARINA DEL REY (2ND RUNNER-UP). ALSO CONGRATULATIONS ALSO TO ALEECIYA ASHTON AND KATRINA DUALL ON JOBS WELL DONE !!
THANK YOU TO ALL WHO CAME OUT TO THE PAGEANT TO SUPPORT. IT IS MUCH APPRECIATED BY ALL !!...UNTIL NEXT YEAR.....Aiko


 THERE ARE MANY REASONS TO BE THANKFUL FOR AND I JUST WANT TO SEND THIS MESSAGE TO ALL OF YOU.
        I JUST WENT (LAST MONTH) THROUGH ANOTHER ALTERING LIFE EXPERIENCE BEING HIT BY A CAR IN MY ELECTRIC WHEELCHAIR ALMOST LEAVING ME ON THE OTHER LANE WHERE THE CARS WERE COMING FROM, IF I DIDN'T HAVE MY SEATBELT ON MY ELECTRIC WHEELCHAIR I WOULDN'T BE TYPING THIS MESSAGE TODAY.
    SINCE I AM RECOVERING AND IMPROVING, I WANT TO SHARE WITH ALL OF YOU THE FOLLOWING.  I AM THANKFUL FOR:
1. BEING ALIVE
2. BREATHING
3. HAVING ALL OF YOU ON MY LIST AND MANY MORE TO ADD ON.
4. SHARING THE LOVE, COMPASSION AND SUPPORT I HAVE RECEIVED, ESPECIALLY AFTER THIS       INCIDENT.
5. ALL THE NEGATIVE AND POSITIVE IN MY LIFE, REALLY THINKING AS I HAVE HEARD BEFORE, IF LIFE GIVES YOU LEMONS, MAKE LEMONADE.

I WANT YOU ALL TO TAKE A MOMENT AND BE THANKFUL FOR SOMETHING IN YOUR LIFE, MAKE A TURN TO A POSITIVE THOUGHT.
I WISH YOU ALL A WONDERFUL, HAPPY AND HEALTHY THANKSGIVING.
ALOHA FROM THE HEART, ALWAYS CUKIE


Aloha
My exotic flowers..........wishing all of you a wonderful Thanksgiving. This s also a time to  give thanks for the blessing in life. With out my husband  family , and friends there would be a void . Thank you for being you & having a passion of creating a change in the community.Change start at home , yourselves , and to others.........  Remember to walk with Aloha in your heart  & embrace and love the goddess within you. 
May Akua Bless, Aunty Anita

                      
Mimi Marks Wins Again!
 
    Chicago's own Mimi Marks has been crowned "Miss International Queen 2005" in Thailand.Mimi, indeed a Transsexual Superstar, represented the United States in the pageant, along with the top 18 finalists. The competition was broadcast live on ITV in Thailand.  It was the 2nd Annual Miss International Queen Pageant in the beautiful city of Pattaya, Thailand, October 25-29, 2005.   Yu Ri 1st Runner-up.  Tipantree Rujiranan 2nd Runner up.
    Miss International Queen is a competition for male to female Transgenders around the world. Its the equivalent to the Miss Universe pagent, with a "twist," as all contestants in Miss International Queen must prove that they are - or were - male through birth certification.  This year's competition was sponsored by Coca Cola, Tiffany's Show in Pattaya (the world's largest venue for female impersonation and the first Transgender cabaret show in South East Asia), Royal Garden Plaza, and Pratunam Polyclinic.  Mimi is currently on an international press tour promoting her crowning achievement and the Miss International Queen Pageant.  Mimi is a former Miss Continental. In 2004, she was crowned The World's Most Beautiful Transsexual in Las Vegas, Nevada.
    Mimi regularly performs at The Baton Show Lounge in Chicago, IL, her home for the past eighteen years. The club's owner, Jim Flint, Mimi Marks and the Baton Show Lounge are the subjects of a docu-series, executive produced and created by partners Nikki Weiss and Carole Antouri. Its being marketed to networks through The Endeavor Agency.
Aloha, Ms. Jerrine

~KULIA I KA LOKAHI I KE OLA~
~TO STRIVE FOR HARMONY IN LIFE~
~E ALOHA KEKAHI I KEKAHI~
~LOVE ONE ANOTHER~
~LOKOMAIKAI~
~GENEROSITY;KINDNESS~
During the holiday season it is extremely important to spread the Aloha Spirit. Happy Holidays to the beautiful people of Hawaii and to those who are dear to our hearts! Malama Pono!!!......Jaci of Kulia Na Mamo


1/12/05 421pm
Yes the time has come for me to return to Hawai'i. By 1230pm tomorrow she will have clicked her heels together and return to the Kingdom of Hawai'i. Shortly after that she will be and the sandy shores of a beach to soak in the kai to remove all the impurities of the Westerlies. After that she's heading to dinner with her local daddy. Ovah all and all ...........What i got out of San Francisco:
I found my independence in a month, the urge of always wanting to be a stripper completed, survivng as a transsexual in a big city, bartendending experience and managing an establishment, being able to experience the city that my last King of Hawai'i, Kalakaua died in and exchanging my mana through oli and hula well honoring him. Accomplishing these things and returning home is my final OUTS.
Things I will miss:
The Men....Never in my life have I ever had the experience but from the men in San Francisco. Gentlemen is the word to describe them here. Wine and dine then sixty-nine is what i'm talkin about with all honor and high respect. Simply ROYAL "T"!
Many of my friends but most of all my brothers Miki and Leki. Keep in touch BUBU's!
Anyhow just know that I'll be home with my computer and CAM!
For all my admirers who never got to meet me while in CALI aloha no..............
Genie ~Miss Peabody~



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